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About Balanced Coaching

A Practice Built on Presence, Purpose, and Partnership

Why we exist

Helping people live and lead with steadiness and confidence

Rooted in Christian faith and informed by neuroscience, emotional maturity, and relational wisdom, Balanced Coaching provides growth experiences that support deep, lasting transformation. Rather than focusing only on behavior or performance, my work centers on how people grow emotionally, relationally, and spiritually over time.

The goal is simple: to help people live and lead in alignment with their God-given identity, with steadiness and confidence that carries into everyday life and leadership.

What began as the personal coaching practice of Dr. Justin Tilghman has grown into a broader coaching and leadership development ministry serving individuals, organizations, and faith-based teams. While the work has expanded, the heart remains the same—walking alongside people with curiosity, compassion, and courage as they pursue meaningful growth.

Today, Balanced Coaching serves clients through individual coaching, leadership development, workshops, and organizational consulting, all grounded in the same NeuroRelational Coaching™ framework that shapes how growth is understood and supported.

How We Serve

Serving individuals and organizations

Whether you are navigating a season of personal transition, carrying the responsibility of leadership, or sensing God's invitation into deeper formation, you don't have to navigate growth alone.

1:1 Personal and Leadership Coaching

Supporting emotional maturity, relational health, and spiritual growth.

Group Coaching and Cohort Experiences

Facilitated growth journeys for leaders and developing teams.

Workshops, Retreats, and Conference Speaking

Faith-friendly, neuroscience-informed training on leadership and relational health.

Organizational and Team Development

Long-term partnerships focused on culture, communication, and sustainable leadership.

Spiritual and Emotional Formation Resources

Tools and learning experiences that support growth beyond sessions.

Balanced Coaching is designed for people who want more than surface-level change and are ready to grow with intention, support, and wisdom.

Our Philosophy

People don't grow best by trying harder

We believe lasting change begins in relationships—with God, with others, and with ourselves. Growth is not driven by pressure or perfection, but by emotional safety, relational connection, and spiritual grounding.

Emotional regulation

Strengthening the nervous-system steadiness that change requires.

Relational skill

Building connection, communication, and repair that hold.

Spiritual formation

A lived relationship with God that shapes everyday life.

NeuroRelational Coaching™

One framework, integrating the whole person

That's why our coaching approach integrates emotional regulation, relational skill-building, and spiritual formation through the NeuroRelational Coaching™ framework. This allows growth to be both deeply personal and practically applicable, whether the focus is individual well-being or leadership development.

It weaves together brain science, emotional maturity, relational development, and Christian spiritual formation into one coherent process—so coaching is personalized rather than formulaic, meeting you in your actual season, story, and goals.

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Neuroscience-informed

Working with how the brain and nervous system actually change.

Relational

Growth that happens through safe, honest connection.

Christ-centered

Anchored in identity, purpose, and formation in Christ.

Balanced Coaching at a Glance

A clear overview of how Balanced Coaching works

If you're exploring coaching, leadership development, or organizational partnership, you may want a clear overview of how Balanced Coaching works, what services are offered, and what outcomes clients can expect.

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Dr. Justin Tilghman, Founder and Principal Coach

Founder

Dr. Justin Tilghman

Founder, Principal Coach & Consultant

Balanced Coaching began as Justin's personal coaching practice and has grown into a broader coaching and leadership development ministry. He continues to lead the practice and develop the NeuroRelational Coaching™ framework that shapes its work.

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Our Associates

A network of trusted coaching professionals

I'm proud to collaborate with a network of independent coaching professionals who share our mission of transformational personal and professional growth. Each Associate operates their own independent coaching practice, bringing unique expertise while aligning with our shared values.

Mallory Garrison

Mallory Garrison

Formation & Engagement Associate

Founder of The Abide Collective

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Justin Spainhoward

Justin Spainhoward

Coaching Associate

Founder of Abiding Life Coaching

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These Coaching Associates are independent contractors, not employees or agents of Balanced Coaching & Consulting, LLC. They utilize certain tools and resources offered by our Practice to support their services but maintain full control over their coaching methods, client relationships, and business operations.

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Whether you're seeking coaching or looking for a workshop or organizational engagement, I'd love to connect. Let's explore what growth could look like—together.

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